Black, Queer, American Therapist in Germany

Offering online individual counseling in English for adult expats and immigrants.

You don’t have to carry it all alone.

You expected challenges living here, but not this level of loneliness. Being in the minority is familiar, but it's even harder while facing bias and bureaucracy in a language and culture you're still learning.

Your loved ones try to understand, but maybe they don’t carry the same weight you do. Some of them move through the world with more ease - more privilege - while you stay on guard.

You miss people and places that didn’t require so much effort. You imagine building a life somewhere else, but it’s complicated. Every option has its own challenges. And some challenges travel with you.

There are people who depend on you. You want to make the best choices, but you're not sure what those are. You wish someone could help you untangle your thoughts and decide what to do.

Let’s build a life where your well-being is not an afterthought, but the foundation.

Hi, I’m Kijai (she/her/hers).

I’m an American and U.S.-licensed psychotherapist living in Munich, Germany. I help English-speaking expats and immigrants experience more nourishing relationships, self-trust, and rest - despite living in a world that benefits from their exhaustion.

As a Black, African-American, queer, cisgender woman, I have often searched for therapists and spaces where I felt a sense of safety and belonging—where I didn’t have to explain or defend my experiences. I’m honored to co-create that kind of space with my clients.

Curious about working together? Schedule a free call to see if it feels right. 

What I can help with:

  • Depression

  • Anxiety

  • Trauma

  • Relationship challenges

  • Sex & sexuality questions

  • Transition to parenthood

How individual (1:1) counseling works:

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“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence. It is self-preservation and that is an act of political warfare.”

— Audre Lorde, A Burst of Light (1988)

Is it time to prioritize your mental wellness?

Schedule a free 20-minute intro call - no pressure, just a chance to see if working together feels like a good fit for you right now.